Thursday, April 14, 2011

对于 『性教育是这么教吗?』的回应

有时候 我觉得人就是爱无理取闹 爱鸡蛋里挑骨头 








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蓝色的字体是Mr Issac 列出的罪行 ,而红色是我发表的个人观点 :

1. 讲师的马来腔华语,例子:"贺"法、"贺"情、"贺"理

1. 难道你不知道,这是我们马来西亚华人的腔调吗?这个算是什么罪行?难道每个讲师都有“马来腔”,你就认为是个罪行?你认为你的华语很流利,说得一点“马来腔” 也没有,所以你就看别人的“马来腔”华语不顺眼?只要他说的,其他人明白,这有什么问题?

2. 误导孩童们且教导他们说污言秽语,在小学讲座上引用"狗男女,奸夫淫妇"等不雅字眼。

2. 难道你真的认为,现在的小孩还有像我们以前那么的单纯,那么的无知吗?其实他会这样说,他的出发点也只是希望学生们了解如果婚前发生性行为,或在婚后外遇,就会被人叫 “狗男女,奸夫淫妇”。虽然用词不当,但是至少他说的,学生们明白也了解。请你们注意当时当uncle jeff讲完第一次的“狗男女,奸夫淫妇”的时候,学生们脸上的表情是怎样的。他们明白,他们笑了,因为他们懂得这些不雅字眼的意思。

这是我在facebook看到一位朋友发表的言论,我很认同 :无论你的讲座里的话语讲的多么的好,还是内容很精彩。请问,小学生会明白吗?明白是另外一回事 , 有用? 还真的比不上那7个字

Okay,就算你认为uncle jeff这样教导小孩子是不对,但是他们也可以从不同的传媒方式认识而了解这些字眼。偶像剧让你哭的要生要死就没有吗?香港连续剧追到阿妈都不认得难道就没有吗?难道你追看那些台湾综艺主持节目就没有吗?小s的毒舌就是最好的例子,看过她节目的一定见识过。


3. 孩童对于不了解性行为所需负的责任于后果,误导小学生性教育课题,希望各位把这个伪君子揪出来,以免继续荼毒小学生思想!

3. 男人和男人之间,女人和女人之间,就是我们所谓的同性恋在我国是不被接纳的。我们身边也有这样的朋友,但是并不表示我们会歧视他们,我们还是把他们当做真心对待的朋友。将心比心,有哪个父母能够接受自己的孩子发生同性恋?

4. 亲爱的父母,如果你现在拥有一个9岁的女儿,被一个14岁的男生性侵犯了。你能够接受吗?就连报纸也曾经登过各式各样年轻的未婚妈妈。难道你希望你的女儿是下一个?还是你希望你的儿子是那个被人唾骂的那位?值得我们深思.. 


5. 现在是个开放的社会,很多人都发生过婚前性行为。我是一个open minded的人,但是大家也了解婚前性行为的后果是什么。未婚怀孕,匆匆忙忙,草草了事的结婚,孩子生下后,开始有争执,最后离婚,这是大多数的。除非你已经准备好了迎接新的生命,对彼此有很了解,感情和事业也稳定了,而这些也只是少数。而现在,又有多少是属于少数的那群?


以上所发表的,纯粹个人观点,你可以选择不接受,不认同。:-)




Tuesday, April 12, 2011

You always on my mind. :)

This is a random post, will be long and sensibility. 

* A very long time ago pic ♥ seems like 2 or 3 years ago. :) *




Just nw evening, i received her husband msg, telling me she have give birth! I am so happy, and I'm Thank God that both of them, mummy and baby are safe and healthy. God, thank you for blessing them. :)


In a sudden received her latest news, i miss her. Every memories with her is keep rolling in my mind. I remember everything about us, we have fun together, we crazy together, we laugh tgt, we used to satire each other in a funny way, not serious but in a joking way, we sharing and we keep each other secrets, we going for our very first photoshooting with my mum's photographer friends, we club together, . 


I know her when both of us are JUST only 4 years old. So coincidence and wonderful, both of us are born at May. Guess what? She's just born earlier than me 6 days. :-)  How glad and grateful am i can met a bestie such like you. Eventhough we are not always hang out with each other, but you always in my mind. 


One more thing, she love to call my nick! One is, 雷公的雷,泥土的泥. i guess u guys dont understand why she calling me like that, because its almost same pronounciation with my chinese name. Another one is, Niao Li. why? Because my english is Nelly, and idk why alot of church friends like to call me Niao Li. Niao = bird in chinese, am i look like a bird? Lmao


Okay let's show you how siao is she, lol :  ( The pictures after photo shooting)


* Okay at first, a swee smile. :) *

 *The next, she try to prove that she's cute
and.. err.. sexy? LOL *

 * Finally there's the siao-est her came out..
Wondering what kind of expression is this? lol *

The most memorable day is, we went for Kundasang 3 days 2 nights trip with your parents. I feel happy and i still remember i having a short and curly hair like a mushroom that time! And one more, still remember there is one day, i went to your house for overnight. In the midnight both of us hungry and we get some supper at refrigerator. We found some siu mai and we steam it, and the next day been scold by your mum. One more time, there's a girl insulting me but then i never offended her, i guess u still remember her, SUSHI, you help me spam her blog chatbox until she close her blog, remember? There's alot of fun we have, but i can't list out because we have too much secret. :-P




Yes, we are only 19, and she's just became mummy! Her baby boy just born to the world. I know there's alot of ppl at outside keep backstabbed her, despise at her, critical about her because when she married she is pregnant-ing. I don't understand why people was like so surprised about this? Nowadays should be very common what.  Everyone will do wrong, no one is born to be virtue. Yes i admit that I'm surprised too when i got the news she marry soon, i was like WTF so rush? Then slowly i guess i know what happen, but even like that, i still choose to be silent and don't comment anything. I will support her, she need support, she need more caring and love at that moments. Don't tell me you never did anything wrong before, i will chop my head if u said loudly NO.  I believe God will have his arrangement on her and her future, i believe this. :) Sometimes, this might is her turning point in her life that God want her to learn? 


Rumors would stop spread by a wise person, in chinese is 谣言止于智者. 


I'm not trying to said she's totally not wrong at all, she's wrong, and that's why she have to responsible at what she had did and together work hard with her husband. I was so regretful that i am not able to join her wedding because i having practical exam at here. :(  I was like keep missing her and imagine how's the wedding running at there and facing my laptop here. The feeling is sucks, fml. 


Last time when we have a chat at msn, you told me that your baby is a cutie boy, i was like arrghh :( I want baby girl because we can dress up pretty pretty and like a little princess for your daughter. *seems like mine one LOL* You know lah, girls have a lot and different types of pretty outfit, but too bad is a he. :( Anyway, i still will sayang him. Vera children is going to call me Kai Ma, in chinese. *evil laugh*! 


My bestie Vera, I hope you will always be happy! Remember, now become mummy cannot be playful like last time. I will always be here for you eventhough i'm far away from you now. But i know there are alot of ppl love you, God love you, your parents love you, Jun Lin love you, i love you, the friends who surrounds you and treat you with true heart love you. Please remember do take care yourself always, because you still have to take care of your little warm family.


The most important is, you must love God and love your parents more and more. They have put alot of efforts and expectation on you, you are their only daughter, they only have you this precious daughter at their life, the biggest gift from God. 




There's one thing i never told you before, i love to watch you when you're playing piano. I remember very long time ago, you having your piano presentation at a hall, but i forget where is it. That time i was only like 5, 6 or 7 like that, when i saw you at stage, i was like so excited and proud of you! That time i keep wave my hand at you, but you are playing piano so thats why you can't respond me but you saw it. :) 


My little girl bestie, remember, you always on my mind. ♥







Sunday, April 10, 2011

#vlog1 : Said hi to me! :D




Hello ppl, this is my very first vlog. ;-) 


Yesh! Finally i'm success to create my very own "handmade" and "homemade" vlog. LMAO 
Sorry for my pronounciations sucks, hope you guys enjoy it! 


Drop your comments, question or any blog request or any tutorial that u guys think that i can be create and share for u guys. see ya! 


P/S : Make sure you turn your speaker louder because i have a tiny voice since i'm shy. =x