Tips of being a succesful blogger

Oh fuck, i'm just almost finish type this blog post and i accidentally delete everything and the post gone. WTFFFFFFFFFFFF 


Been blogged for few years, so can share with you all the tips to gain good impression and popularity for your blog.


1. The Music/Song playing in your blog is too noisy and annoy.


Everyone realised this right? Sometime we feel like wanna take a look at a person blog. Once the page finish load, suddenly pop out some noisy and annoying song from the person blog. Don't you ever think that you put this kind of songs, will shoo away your readers? 


Sometimes when the line is down, and the song is automatic play without finish load, and it was like stuck, play.. play and stuck.. stuck and stuck again. really KNS


Imagine now you have a very down mood, you went for someone blog, and once u open, the music is annoyed u. What you will do? For sure directly click the X to close the page right?


I never meant that you can't apply any songs at your blog, of course u can. But why don't you choose some blue, or soft song to play at your blog, make ppl comfortable to listen. Or else, just don't set the player as auto-playing. Let readers make their choice whether to listen or not.




2. The Insincere Blog Followers


I used to have chatbox applied at my blog last time to convienent my readers to leave comments. But it kinda annoyed that sometimes u will some numbers of bloggers will leave something like this :


Reader A : Hello, follow/link your blog. Mind to follow me back?


You went to the person blog, u saw ur blog link is in the list. 


Idk how do you reply, but for me, i will said sorry and i only follow my friends' blog. 

Trust me, very fast, after that you went back to the same blog, your link gone! Haha! Very funny is it? I call this kind of ppl insincere followers. They follow your blog because they want you follow back their blog. What for? To increase their followers amount so that they can show to others they are popular? 


If people like your blog, like the way you blog, they will automatic follow or link you without asking you to follow back. :)






3. Copy & Paste Blogger 


Some ppl just used to steal ppl point, thoughts or even the whole post to paste at their own blog and take it as their own. I used to call them CP! Chinese ppl shud knw CP can be a rude calling har? :-P


Did you ever think of how hardly is the blogger trying to think, type and make correction at his/her post just to share to everyone of you. Unfortunely  the post that she/ he did so hardly and badly being copy by using Ctrl + C and it became your post. Don't you forgot there is something call copyright huh? The cicle C © 


Be who you are, not what people want you to be. Be yourself and i believe there will be a number of people admire the way you blog and who are. :)


P/S : Little tips for you guys, the design of your blog, the fonts and fonts colour also very important. Don't need to be too fancy as long as it look nice and tidy. It will be interrupt readers' eyesight and make them suffer to read it if the fonts colour is not match with your design. :)




Finally, i redone my sharing for today. Life is getting busy since i have alot of group assignments coming to me. 

Sleep early night catsssss, 

tomorrow going to post about my tea-time session with friends!

Yummyyyyy. One of my favourite - Tiramisu ♥ 

Difference Between Love & Used?

Do you know the difference between LOVED & USED? Let me share a story with you all. :-)

While a man was polishing his new car,

his 4 years old son picked up a stone and scratched lines on the side of the car.

In anger, the man took the child's hand and hit it many times without realising he was using a wrench.

At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures.

When the child saw his dad, with painful eyes he asked,

" Dad,when will my fingers grow back? "

The man was so hurt and speechless, he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times.

Devasted by his own actions, sitting in front of that car, he looked at the scratches.

His child had written " LOVE YOU DAD ".

The next day, that man committed suicide.

Dear all,

Anger and Love has no limits, choose the latter to have a beautiful, lovely life.

Remember this,

Things are to be used and people are to be loved.

The problem in today's world is that people are used while things are loved.

Let's try always to keep this thought in your mind,

Things are to be used,

People are to be loved.

Watch your thoughts, they become words.

Watch your words, they become actions.

Watch your actions, they become habits.

Watch your habits, it become character.

Watch your character, it becomes your destiny.

新年快乐! :-D

我又胖了 T__T 小肚腩跑出来了

好久没回来了 部落格的new post button 按了又关

很多话想说 很多的情感想要抒发出来 心里的激动想喊出来 但是最后我还是保持沉默

抱歉 我也不想把这里弄得那么冷清 那么的低落

感谢一直以来支持我爱我的朋友们 我很好 谢谢你们的关心

终于 我回到了自己的家乡 一个星期后我就要收拾包袱回到KL继续我的学习生涯

一踏入家的第一步 我闻到了家的味道 这里依旧没有变 唯一变的就只是时间的流逝

新年要到了 不要把这里搞得那么低落伤感

首先 祝大家新年快乐 万事如意 心想事成 孝顺父母

学业进步 步步高升 青春美丽 帅气逼人 (说了那么多的祝福，满意了吧? xD)

最最最重要的 就是一定要身体健康 因为健康就是财富 大家一定要好好照顾自己哦

今年 我有好多好多的愿望 贪心的我

最希望的就是爸爸妈妈身体健康 工作顺利

还有我爱的男人 工作顺利 身体健康 最重要的是 不要忘了还有我在等你回来

然后就是我的成绩啊啊啊啊啊啊 我一定要得到比之前更好的成绩

给自己打打气

笑一个 ;-)

Alviss Kong为女友自杀事件让我有很多感触. :(

以下我想要发表的言论，也许不同人会有不同的意见。但是也只是本人的意见和看法，接不接受，是你自己的事，但是请大家站在中立的立场来看待这件事。你不认同我的看法，你可以选择保持沉默。若你认同我的看法，谢谢你。:)

虽说人死不能复生，但是有多少人明白你来到这个世界是一件多么不容易的事情。现在facebook闹的沸腾腾的Alviss Kong为女友自杀事件，相信看着我这篇文章的读者们应该都很清楚。

Alviss，说实在的，我欣赏你的痴情和专一。虽然我不知道你和你的女友是为了什么而分手。但是可笑的是，难道你认为这个世界上只有你一个人失恋吗？一句话 “ 失恋咁系大晒 ”。就算大家都为你的逝世而替你感到难过后悔，但还是挽回不了你的性命。你赢的我的怜悯可惜，却同时也失去我的尊重。但是还是想说，安息吧。

看过你去世前的最后一篇分享文章，你口口声声的说你很爱她，有多爱她，但是你却没有站在你的立场为她想过。你死了，她要怎么面对？她会不会就因为你的逝世而存有阴影，以后都不敢再和别的男生交往。而且，她该如何面对你的父母亲戚和你身边她也认识的朋友？她就因为你自私的做法，被冠上“红颜祸水”的罪名。虽然你最后的文章是劝阻大家不要迁怒于她，但不是每个人都能和你有同样的想法和感受。

最难过的，还是生你养你父母，和爱你的家人。你妈生你出来，不是要你为了一个女生而自杀。你是他们的托付，希望和最爱的儿子。辛辛苦苦，背后有多少血泪，我想你应该永远都不会知道了。希望alviss的家人能够坚强起来，祝福你们，节哀顺变。

至于那些脑残的网友纷纷在女方的部落格留言谩骂，我觉得真的是很无聊很没脑。他们两人分手，女方不愿回到前男友身边，也许别人背后有自己的故事或发生过任何不愉快的事情是我们这些旁观者不知道的，你们可以替男方感到难过后悔，为他哀悼，给他祝福。但是不要把自己自认为对的想法和做法想都没想就去做，你只是旁观者，你什么都不懂，你凭什么去骂别人。我声明，我不是女方的朋友，我也不认识她。我只是站在一个中立的立场来分析来分享这事。自己的前男友自杀，自己心里也不好过，毕竟两人深爱过。

至于binluii，我不认识你，也不懂你有没有机会看到我的部落格。但是我希望你能够尽快好起来，希望你能够找回继续爱下去的勇气。一段感情的失败有很多不同的因素，希望你能够坚强。我听说你的部落格已经关掉了，我知道其实你也很难过很痛苦很自责很后悔。坚强起来吧女孩！祝你幸福快乐。你的身边，还有爱你的家人和朋友。:)

我爱的读者朋友们，想对大家说，我明白分手后的痛是一定会有，大家都经历过失恋，过渡期、低潮期一定会有，但是随着时间冲淡，一切会慢慢恢复原状，你还是你，世界不会因为你而有任何改变，地球也不会为了你而停止转动。珍惜自己，爱惜自己，这个世界上有那么多残障的人，仅仅靠着一双腿或一双巧手努力生存下去，医院有那么多的病患靠着呼吸管顶着那唯一的一口气努力乐观的活下去，刚出生的小宝宝，在妈咪肚子里十个月终于诞生在这个世界上，他们是那么的渺小脆弱，但是他们却是上帝牵着手带来这世界上的小宝贝。你看看他们，再看看自己，你和他们比起来，到底谁比较可怜。他们没有自怨自艾，为什么你就只因为一段失败的感情，一个不珍惜你的人而失去了活在这世界的勇气。还是那一句，你到底算老几？

如果喜欢这篇文章，就请给个赞和分享给你身边的朋友吧。:)

谢谢你耐心阅读。